Monthly Archives: April 2008
Boxed in and Always Going the Wrong Way
| April 30, 2008 | Posted by thatgrrl under Uncategorized |
A Bit Late for Manic Monday: Rip
| April 29, 2008 | Posted by thatgrrl under Uncategorized |
I’m a Tortured Genius in Disguise
| April 28, 2008 | Posted by thatgrrl under Uncategorized |
Your Travel Personality Is: The Adventurer |
![]() For you, travel is how you learn about the world. And you like to learn the stuff that’s not in guidebooks. You truly have wanderlust. When you’re not traveling, you’re dreaming about where you’ll go next. And your travels are truly legendary – they leave you with stories you’ll be telling for the rest of your life! |
You Are A Vampire |
![]() You have a real thirst for bliss, and you consider yourself a true hedonist. And you’re not afraid to walk alone in life, if it means getting what you truly crave. You truly enjoy entrancing people. Not to mention the ensuing pleasures of the flesh. Your tastes have been called decadent and bizarre. You usually give in to your temptations, no matter how primal Your greatest power: Your flawless ability to seduce and charm Your greatest weakness: Human flesh You play well with: Werewolves |
You Are From the Sun |
![]() Of all your friends, you’re the shining star. You’re dramatic – loving attention and the spotlight. You’re a totally entertainer and the life of the party. Watch out! The Sun can be stubborn, demanding, and flirty. Overall, you’re a great leader and great friend. The very best! |
The Keys to Your Life |
![]() Anything good in your life comes from seeking balance and unity. You are a flexible shapeshifter who has the skills to survive in any situation. Anything bad in your life comes from not taking charge when you should be. You are a natural leader. So be aggressive and take the reins! |
You Are 84% Tortured Genius |
![]() You totally fit the profile of a tortured genius. You’re uniquely brilliant – and completely misunderstood. Not like you really want anyone to understand you anyway. You’re pretty happy being an island. |
You are Milk Chocolate |
![]() A total dreamer, you spend most of your time with your head in the clouds. You often think of the future, and you are always working toward your ideal life. Also nostalgic, you rarely forget a meaningful moment… even those from long ago. |
Your Personality at 35,000 Says… |
![]() Deep down, you prefer spending time alone to spending time with others. You enjoy thinking more than talking. You are finding your place in the world, but you still feel overwhelmed. There’s a lot of choices out there! Your gift is having a good eye. You take amazing picture and have the natural talent for most visual arts. You are inspired by what is possible. Real life is often too ordinary for you. It’s very easy for you to feel happy. You can find peace with any situation. |
You Are 58% Pure |
![]() You’re not so innocent… in fact, you’re quite unpure. You have seen and experienced a lot. And you’re no worse for the wear! |

Sunday Scribblings: The Future of the Planet
| April 27, 2008 | Posted by thatgrrl under Uncategorized |

Sunday Scribblings: The Earth goes green, gets rid of all the pollution and has the last laugh…

Blog Talkers: Afraid
| April 27, 2008 | Posted by thatgrrl under Uncategorized |
BlogTalkers: When was the last time you were afraid? What scared you? And how did you conquer your fears as a child? How do you conquer your fears today? What scares you the most? Do you have nightmares? If so, what are they? What was the most bizarre nightmare you’ve ever had? What was the most bizarre nightmare anyone has ever told you?
I’m still afraid of the dark. It’s silly but true. Last night doing laundry in the basement I had to go down into the dark room and feel around the corner for the light switch. Just a bit creepy to reach out into the dark. My other worst nightmares were around the time I was immigrating to the US and marrying down there. I dreamed all my hair and teeth were falling out.
My worst nightmares have been where the devil came to see me. Kind of funny cause I don’t believe in hell or the devil. But it was the scariest, most real feeling dream I ever had. I had the same kind of dream twice, different locations where he was wearing different clothes and faces.
I try not to have fears about things like spiders, toads, etc. Those are all such little things, fun kind of things to be afraid of when you think of the really big things out there. I’m afraid I will die an old wretched bag lady, alone and without a roof over my head. I’m afraid I won’t ever have a real place of my own to feel and be at home. Those are real things to be afraid of. Spiders just don’t have much on that.

Word Verification is Sadistic Use of Word Art
| April 27, 2008 | Posted by thatgrrl under Uncategorized |
What is this? Modern art? No, word verification. Can you read all of these? They all came from Blogger’s word verification. I just refreshed and they came up one after the other. No special efforts to find the worst of them, just six in a row. They’re awful. I couldn’t read them, can you?
If you are using word verification this is what you are inflicting upon your commenters (or those who choose not to translate the word verification and don’t comment). Is this especially smart? I don’t think so that’s why I stopped using it ages ago. How badly do you need to use this? Why not turn it off and just use moderation? It leaves people waiting to see their comment posted but… they just finished typing it do they really need to visit it so soon?
Unless you are getting hundreds of spam comments a day I don’t see any reason to use word verification versus being your own comment moderator. Blogger will send them right to your email address. One click and you can post or toss it. You can even go to the moderation page on Blogger and check off the comments you want to post and get them all in one quick click.
So what’s your excuse for using word art to moderate your blog for you? Lazy? Sadistic? Uninformed? Consider yourself informed… word verification sucks!

Christmas Rose in Bloom
| April 27, 2008 | Posted by thatgrrl under Uncategorized |
Strawberry Jam with Ginger
| April 26, 2008 | Posted by thatgrrl under Uncategorized |
“My Mother isn’t coming for a social visit, she wants to inspect us, dissect everything I’ve done with the house, the girls and you.” Blair pulled the blankets back over her head.
“Your Mother is coming to see the girls and us. You make her sound like a hyper critical bitch and she’s really pretty sweet.” Bob pulled the blankets off the bed, trying to force Blair to get out of it. “I had Alice and Claire all dressed up but they wanted your strawberry jam on toast and now they’re all sticky. But they loved the jam Mommy made.”
Bob sat on the bed next to Blair while she curled up, tried to pretend it wasn’t too cold to go back to sleep.
“Did you like the jam?” Blair said.
“I did. Now get up. I said we could make the jam this morning, together. You didn’t have to stay up so late just to make jam. I offered to just buy some so you could put it in the mason jars and let her think you made it.”
“She would have known.” Blair laughed. “I wanted one really homemade domestic thing done before she comes out here. I wish I could have made bread too. I just couldn’t keep myself awake long enough for it to rise twice.”
“Come on, get up, your Mother isn’t as evil as you want to think she is.” Bob gave her a playful swat on the butt. “I’ll change the girls, you have to get yourself changed and showered. I can put coffee on once I’ve got the girls all frilled up again.”
“Thanks.” Blair rolled herself out of bed. She avoided looking at herself in the mirror. Just turned on the shower, peeled off her nightie and stood under the hot water, letting it sink into her befogged brain.
Half an hour later as she was pulling her hair into order with a big ‘bad hair day’ barrette she heard her Mother arrive. “All hail the Queen.” She murmured quietly.
It wasn’t that her Mother was a demon in disguise she just had higher standards than Blair could ever meet. Over the years she had given up on ever being good enough or having everything done well enough. Her Mother would come in and take over. Blair hated having to be nice and let her Mother re-wash her dishes, re-order her closets and re-arrange her flowers on the table even.
Then came the advice, always well meant. The girls should have another hair cut. Bob really should be treated more like the man of the house and why can’t Blair just let him sleep in instead of expecting him to be up with his daughters every morning. Not that Blair never helped out. She worked nights and Bob worked days. It wasn’t easy being a couple that way but they wouldn’t have to do it forever. Bob liked his mornings with the girls, especially on weekends when there wasn’t a rush for school and work. Blair was the afternoon shift, home after school, until Bob was there to get them into bed.
Blair pulled a shirt over her bra, put a smile on her face and went out to bell the dragon.
“Blair!” Her Mother’s eyes lit up and she came over for a hug and kiss. No, dragon wasn’t fair. Her Mother really did love everyone, the family. She just needed a few boundaries… just as they say on those afternoon talk shows.
“Hi Mom.” Blair hugged her back.
“Bob and I have just been having coffee with your great jam. I think you put ginger in it? It’s really good. I just wish you had waited… you and I… we always make the strawberry jam together. I nearly stopped and bought two flats of strawberries on the way here today, just hoping we could make the jam this weekend.”
Her Mother, the dragon, the demon in disguise, gave Blair a watery smile. “I like that we can still do some things like the jam making and the crafts for Christmas. I don’t get to do much of that with you any more. Your sisters never did those things, it was always you and I. Kind of silly to get emotional about it. You did just fine without me. You’re good at so many things. Always have been.”
Blair felt her own tear attempting to leak out. “I wanted to make bread to go with the jam too. Just got home from work so late last night… I have everything, fresh yeast, flour… Claire and Alice can help and Bob is really good at taking over the kneading when my arms get tired.”
Blair laughed. “I’m glad you’re here Mom. I always liked making jam, bread and holiday sewing things with you. Now that you’re here a few days we can teach Claire and Alice how to do those things too.”
Blair’s Mom smiled, wiped a tear remnant away and sat at the table. She sipped her coffee, looked at the girls in all the frills and bows on the pink dresses they wore. Bob really had outdone himself on pink and frills. “You know… later we could take the girls for a little hair trim. Maybe a little styling up too. They have such nice curly hair, it’s a shame you don’t do just a bit more styling with it Blair…”
Blair smiled patiently but inside she was rolling her eyes… Mothers!
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For the Short Notice Short Story Competition at Hunting the Muse. Let me know if you catch any typos. I think I have them all and then I seem to find one more each time I check it.
The Ultimate Creative Writing Exercise!!
| April 25, 2008 | Posted by thatgrrl under Uncategorized |
Lift fingers to keyboard… now type!
It really is that easy. If a million monkeys can come up with something at random just think how much better you could do!
Don’t stop yourself.

The Great Strawberry Jam Writing Contest
| April 25, 2008 | Posted by thatgrrl under Uncategorized |
Brady on Hunting the Muse is having a writing contest. The prize… strawberry jam, home made. (Other stuff too). 5,000 or fewer words. Due April 28th, 2008.
The Theme:
The theme for this competition will be Strawberry Jam. The theme must play an important part in the plot of your story. It can be subtle or a very prominent part of the storyline. But it must exist and entries will be judged on how well it is pulled off.
I’m licking the jam off my fingers just thinking about it.















