Monthly Archives: April 2005
Revamping the Hope Chest
| April 29, 2005 | Posted by thatgrrl under Uncategorized |
Is 40 too old to have a hope chest? These days women are remarrying after divorces or just starting out later with the whole marriage and family values ideal. We have careers and then think about children. Some of us begin with a family and career second but are side tracked by divorce or widowhood. (Whichever comes first?)
I don’t think the hope chest is a tradition which should be forgotten or left to those younger ladies, fresh out of school, all dewy and cute. Women should never give up hope and a good chest is always appreciated. Have a hope chest party with your friends and see who has the best ideas to stack the hope chest.
Consider revamping the tradition. If you know a woman beginning the dating thing again, show her your faith and give her a cedar chest. It doesn’t have to be some costly antique, any decent chest will do. Cedar works cause it smells nice and prevents your linens being eaten by moths, at least in theory. You can always add cedar or other pleasant smelling sachets to the chest to make it smell delightful each time it’s opened. The chest should have a top shelf which is removable and under that is the larger space for the traditional hand made linens.
We can revamp that too. Instead of hand embroidered lacy pretty sheets how about lacy, pretty lingerie. Include the sheets, tablecloths and quilts too, she’ll need those after all. You can also include personal and special items: Christmas ornaments, glass flower vases, a piggy bank with cash, favourite books or CDs and so on.
The top shelf of the chest can store photo albums, greeting cards, scrapbooks and anything else she might like to take out and look at between the dating scene and the marriage deal. The tradition was to give her things to make her new house a home. Think along those lines. Include gift certificates to stores where she can pick up home appliances and other goodies.
Keep in mind she will have plenty of her own keepsakes and trinkets which could also be put into the hope chest. Leave her some storage space in there too. By the time everyone has finished loading it up with new things and old things that should be one heavy hope chest. Full of hope and good wishes for a new bride whether she’s 20 or 40.
Maps for Road Tripping
| April 29, 2005 | Posted by thatgrrl under Uncategorized |
I love road trips, the campier, the crazier and the longer – the better. To overly plan a road trip is to spoil it. You may have an ultimate destination but it’s the journey that really counts. Take time to get lost. Wander. Make frequent stops for no good reason. Coffee, knickknacks, tourist traps, farmers markets, flea markets, fresh honey, odd road signs, adventure and other things so essential to life yet so often overlooked for lack of ‘time’.
You may wonder why a road tripper ever needs a map. Let alone a collection of them. I do love them, they make the trip that much more fun. Mainly, you absolutely must have the backroad maps to wherever you may be wandering. Should you get hopelessly lost (lucky you!), as you’re laughing, sipping roadside coffee and wondering how you ended up so far to the left, a good road map will be your guide to possible alternative routes. Never take the map seriously though. There are always glitches. You’ll find them as you drive along and realize the map never had this road or that turn or that dead end approaching right in front of your car bumper. That is the odd thing about maps, they are imperfect but trying so hard to be correct. Maps are friendly and confused, so very likeable.
I think of maps as those drawings from the early explorers. Those men who trekked out to places completely unknown and tried to draw a guide to what they were seeing. Not just flora and fauna but rivers, lakes, mountains, valleys and everything else they stumbled upon. Ancient explorers were the earliest road trippers. Before cars, there were ships. Before ships there were horses. Before horses there were just people walking around wishing they knew how long it was to the next grocery store for snackage. No, just kidding, you knew there were no grocery stores back then, right?
The first maps were wonky. They didn’t have perspective and distances were not measured equally. Now we have science which has given us exacting measurements and the tools to create beautifully detailed maps. Cartography and related sciences are things modern road tripping types can be grateful for. Think of them next time you’re looking for the right house on the right street in the right town.
Now, go, take your itchy feet, let the wanderlust possess you. Take along a map, it’s like a good friend who will never laugh at your navigational skills.
Road Map Collectors Association
International Map Collector’s Society
History of Cartography
Posted this to Kitschy Kitschy Coo.
Hakluyt Society publishes books on voyages of discovery, maritime exploration, history of navigation, navigators journals. Hakluyt Society.
| April 29, 2005 | Posted by ThatGrrl at StumbleUpon under Writing |
http://www.hakluyt.com/
From the page: “Membership of the Hakluyt Society is strongly recommended to everyone interested in the history of exploration and travel, exploratory voyages, geographical discovery and world wide cultural encounter.” The Hakluyt Society publishes historical accounts of travel and explorations, and voyages of discovery.
IMCoS – For Map Lovers
| April 29, 2005 | Posted by ThatGrrl at StumbleUpon under Writing |
http://www.imcos.org/
International map collecting too. Now I’m getting cabin fever.. must get out… drive… anywhere… somewhere… no where in particular.
RMCA
| April 29, 2005 | Posted by ThatGrrl at StumbleUpon under Writing |
http://www.roadmaps.org/
Roap map collectors. How Cool! I never even thought about it but I have a ton of them too. I love road trips, unplanned of course.
The International Association of Business Communicators (IABC)
| April 28, 2005 | Posted by ThatGrrl at StumbleUpon under Writing |
http://www.iabc.com/
I’m still looking into it but since I’m in communications it seems like a good idea.
Scholastic.com | Homework Hub
| April 27, 2005 | Posted by thatgrrl under Uncategorized |
Meant as homework help for kids but I know adults who could brush up on their writing skills. Odd that something we use everyday (communication and writing in particular) is allowed to get so rusty.
It’s my personal thing, I don’t expect everyone to have a fetish about it but stilll… communication is a tool, why let it rust?
Antique Jewelry, Estate Jewelry and Engagement Rings
| April 23, 2005 | Posted by ThatGrrl at StumbleUpon under Writing |
http://www.the-way-we-were.com/
I like old things, traditions like charm bracelets, hope chests and lockets. This site has antiques for sale and information too.
TrekEarth | Learning about the world through photography
| April 19, 2005 | Posted by thatgrrl under Uncategorized |
Exceptionally sweet site. Some of the photos will just blow you away.
Marriage Boycott
| April 15, 2005 | Posted by thatgrrl under Uncategorized |
I was skimming/ reading another blog and one of the posts about a post was some guy raving about boycotting marriage cause women were evil and there was no sex after marriage. The usual silliness.
It had me thinking. First, the marriage boycott works both ways. Secondly, who has more reason to boycott marriage these days than we do? The days of women at home and men working are pretty over. Women work, women cook, women clean, women kill their own bugs, get step ladders to reach the high shelves and we can have an orgasm without a man being in the room. So, where does that leave modern man?
If he isn’t contributing to the running of the household, is he just another thing to be cleaned and maintained? Bringing in a pay cheque isn’t enough. Women who have a job and come home and clean the house, cook the dinner, take care of kids and then get told it’s time to wake up and have sex, might not see the good point in having a man around the house.
Men need to put out. I don’t mean sex. Put out the garbage, wash the clothes, tidy the kitchen, pick up the dry cleaning, vacuum the rugs, walk the dog, get the kids out of the house early on Saturday morning and then wake up for sex too. It’s being part of a couple, rather than a woman and her self contained sex toy. Sex isn’t enough, women want someone to come home to with a smile. The guy that makes us smile and glad to see him. That’s they guy we want to come home to, that’s the guy we want to wake up beside and do all kinds of wicked, wanton shameless things to. Things you wouldn’t discuss with anyone but him.





